EGO = Edging.God.Out.
Whenever you point the finger at someone -there are always 3 pointing BACK at you...
In God, I mean the highest vibrational energy: neither male or female. God is infinite & omnipresent in nature.
Blaming others is pointless. We must "OWN" our own feelings & reactions otherwise we give others the RIGHT to control our lives...
The TRUTH of the matter is: Men & Women need each other. Let's face it - we would not be here if it wasn't the LOVE of our parents...so, WHY are relationships failing? The answer lies in 3 little letters: E-G-O.
The late psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud attempted to define our ego - as subconscious, man-made, etc...
Men COMMIT to women because of their caring CHARACTER not beause of her big bank acount or a hot body - of course physical attractiveness works BOTH ways - Men can be BIG babies. It helps if you remind them of their moms. In the way you can NURTURE their needs.
If you are a dominating woman - you will attract a submissive man & vice versa. Its not that POWERFUL men prefer weak women - they prefer FEMININE females who make them FEEL in control, believe me, behind closed doors a real man lets the woman call the shots but she is WISE enough to keep her Feminine MYSTIQUE only for him BEHIND the scenes.
Women who complain that men only want have not caught onto their INFINTELY intriguing feminine ENERGY that not only ATTRACTS the right man but KEEPS him around...sure you can be a MEGA BITCH showing HIM who is BOSS... But there are serious consequences to this. Such as - losing a GOOD man FOREVER!! So think twice before asserting yourself to the point that he gets Turned OFF to the point of NO return. It could be the BIGGEST regret of your life. And I have SEEN it happen.
Ultimately, due to thousands of years of "evolution" -men INSTINCTUALLY want to take care of a woman. It is emgrained in his DNA (just as women subconsciously seek comfort & security).
LADIES--> if you start to walk, talk, & ACT masculine - you are actually emasulating him. YES, he might want to take you to bed (again this is natural, especially if he finds you physically attractive). There are ALWAYS exceptions - of course, you are fighting against MILLENIUMS of human biology.
Women are highly intuitive (emotional) but men are also VISONARY when it comes to the kind of woman he want to put ROOTS down with....To put it bluntly - there is a major difference between being his FUTURE family or his future f*ck. In my experience a man KNOWS right away even before the woman if there is potential more than physical intimacy.
I truly BELIVE in my heart that there is someone for everybody. Keept the FAITH & stay POSITIVE:)
When all else fails~ PRAY!! XOXO
#RealRelationshipTalk.
Blaming others is pointless. We must "OWN" our own feelings & reactions otherwise we give others the RIGHT to control our lives...
The TRUTH of the matter is: Men & Women need each other. Let's face it - we would not be here if it wasn't the LOVE of our parents...so, WHY are relationships failing? The answer lies in 3 little letters: E-G-O.
The late psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud attempted to define our ego - as subconscious, man-made, etc...
Men COMMIT to women because of their caring CHARACTER not beause of her big bank acount or a hot body - of course physical attractiveness works BOTH ways - Men can be BIG babies. It helps if you remind them of their moms. In the way you can NURTURE their needs.
If you are a dominating woman - you will attract a submissive man & vice versa. Its not that POWERFUL men prefer weak women - they prefer FEMININE females who make them FEEL in control, believe me, behind closed doors a real man lets the woman call the shots but she is WISE enough to keep her Feminine MYSTIQUE only for him BEHIND the scenes.
Women who complain that men only want have not caught onto their INFINTELY intriguing feminine ENERGY that not only ATTRACTS the right man but KEEPS him around...sure you can be a MEGA BITCH showing HIM who is BOSS... But there are serious consequences to this. Such as - losing a GOOD man FOREVER!! So think twice before asserting yourself to the point that he gets Turned OFF to the point of NO return. It could be the BIGGEST regret of your life. And I have SEEN it happen.
Ultimately, due to thousands of years of "evolution" -men INSTINCTUALLY want to take care of a woman. It is emgrained in his DNA (just as women subconsciously seek comfort & security).
LADIES--> if you start to walk, talk, & ACT masculine - you are actually emasulating him. YES, he might want to take you to bed (again this is natural, especially if he finds you physically attractive). There are ALWAYS exceptions - of course, you are fighting against MILLENIUMS of human biology.
Women are highly intuitive (emotional) but men are also VISONARY when it comes to the kind of woman he want to put ROOTS down with....To put it bluntly - there is a major difference between being his FUTURE family or his future f*ck. In my experience a man KNOWS right away even before the woman if there is potential more than physical intimacy.
I truly BELIVE in my heart that there is someone for everybody. Keept the FAITH & stay POSITIVE:)
When all else fails~ PRAY!! XOXO
#RealRelationshipTalk.
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